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Relationships- Why do we bother?

Why do people get into relationships? Why do relationships end? Watch a short video where Janis Robinson discusses some points around these serious topics.

The Illusion of Perfection

I do not know if any of you have fallen into this trap, though I am suspecting it might not just be me. Do you dream of perfection somewhere in your life? Is there one area of your life that you have felt frustrated as no matter how hard you work towards perfection in this one area you view yourself as failing? Take a moment and look within the 7 areas of life: Spiritual, Mental, Vocational, Financial, Physical, Social & Familial. Connect for one moment secretly in you mind the area in which you have desired perfect, yet still have not obtained it. It shall serve you as you continue.

I have to admit I have fallen prey to perfection thinking. During my younger years in certain areas of my life I would not consider anything, which did not meet my perfection standards. The great error to this is not allowing things as they are initially so they continue to get better and better. Refusing to acknowledge how things were transforming to my desired perfection made me feel powerless in being capable of ever obtaining my perfect vision.

Think of a small child who is first learning how to walk. In the child’s mind he/she has the visualization of what it looks like to walk. As anyone knows who has watched a small child, they have witnessed the child wobble, drop/fall, up again wobble drop fall over and over and over until the child can walk. Many of us at times have laughed in glee at the persistance of a small child failing to realize we are doing the same in our own life.

What do you think of the likelihood of a child learning to walk if after the first plop they gave up not reaching the perfection of walking? Well, I know if it were me I would still be crawling around on the floor as well as many of my friends with me. Would we be a funny looking population! LOL.

Think back on the one area in your life you have been dreaming of success in and also the form of success. When a small child falls, do you think they might think… “hmmmm… I almost got it, look how good I did. This time I am going to do it just a little different and see if I can get it to work?” Have you acknowledged the excellence of the tiny small stride you or others have made in the direction of your perfection view.

When I was younger I have mentioned I felt like a complete failure at personal relationships. This was very far from true as I was actively studying and learning how to do them better. In my perception I had kept dating the same terrible guy over and over again who merely had a different name. What I didn’t realize and honor were the tiny improvements I was making with each and every relationship. I could easily acknowledge I was doing this in my career, but with my intimate relationships I was unwilling to look at it. I only wanted the perfect dream of a relationship I had had since I was little.

The addiction to only settling for perfection was in effect causing me great pain and anguish. I am certain you may very well feel the same way about the idea of perfection you have had regarding something important in your life that hasn’t in your mind come to fruition as of yet. You, like me may have lost sleep over it or maybe even cried about it. Ok, so you probably didn’t cry, and I did shedding many tears of frustration. ;)

How would you like to make it come to fruition? What if I told you it will be extremely simple, though it will take effort and mainly the effort is daily practice. Would you still be willing to do it? Can you break free from society’s pull and demand of “I have to have it NOW and it has to by MY WAY!”?? If you are willing to do something different continue to read.

Everyday, journal 10 results you see/feel today in your perception of how your future idea of what you want in your life is coming to be true. Every single little tiny step along the way acknowledge how you are getting closer to your perfect vision. The gift of the God/Universe is what we thank about and realize for ourselves as coming true along the way, creates a domino effect of our dreams coming true for us in the vision of what we desire.

Henry Ford has a saying paraphrased here: “Whether you believe you can or you can’t in either case you are right.”

Believing in yourself and your dreams is powerful. The more you acknowledge they are coming true and being grateful for every small step everyday, the closer you come to having the life of your dreams according to the perfection of the perfect dream you have in your mind. God has instilled the idea or the belief in you, and you would only have it there if you were truly capable of making it happen.

Now, if you are really courageous and would like to consider how to make being grateful for heading in the direction even more effective here is how: Talk to those who are close to you. Verbalize to your friends and families how in your perception you are grateful of the steps you realize that are happening in forming the perfection in your mind. Yes, they will disagree with you at times, and despite the disagreement there is incredible power to be had by speaking it aloud. It will take you to the next level of faith in yourself to keep moving forward and owning you truly are accomplishing your dreams as you have envisioned them.

If you would like to learn more about these techniques or would like to learn about other tools you can use to create more of what you love in your life contact us at: Info@robinsonequation.com or visit our website at www.robinsonequation.com

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WARNING- Honor Being Lost

Have you realized an unusual trend that has been spreading across America lately? I am certain those you in other countries may have seen it as well. The trend I am mentioning is embarrassment, or lack of gratitude, for self about what one does for a living. It appears there is a diseased point of view that what one does is not a honorable position. Have you noticed how many negate what they do as being a service to the world.

When I talk with my clients (those who desire wealth in the financial form) some of my clients have the perception they want to make a lot of money and then be able to give it away to a "noble cause." That is a grand idea, though it doesn't really seem like much fun to suffer to make wealth doing something of no value to some how obtain wealth to then just give it away.

I have been reading a fun book called .where in the first chapter he talks about this myth of society. Rabbi Lapin talks specifically about Bill Gates and how many squabble about the amount of money he gives to charity. In the United States it seems that many are promoting the need to be charitable and that profitability is considered evil and bad. Rabbi Lapin points out the destruction or lack of acknowledgment for the tremendous service to humanity Bill Gates has done with his products and services. Thanks to Bill Gates we have a common computer language today that allows us to communicate around the world and share information. This destruction of giving credit to Bill Gates for his amazing service in business is showing up in each of our lives.

True wealth in our lives is accomplished by the amount of service it brings and the number of people it serves. If we do not value and honor what we do for a living, others will not value or honor us thus decreasing our personal wealth. By not honoring and valuing ourselves we will limit the amount of income we have available to share with others. If we ignore how others services are a blessing to us and others we are negating them, as well as ourselves. Every-time we negate someone else for their service to the world it is a reflection of ourselves diminishing our self-worth to the world. The more we diminish our self-worth magnet, the more difficult it is for us to be a magent in our lives whether it is for relationships, career, finances or family.

Think about how simplistic our lives are today comparred to a few hundred years ago. We owe this fact to each and every one of us and the service we provide everyday that plays a small part in this effect. 99% of us eat food that has partially been prepared by others. I personally do not know anyone that mills their own flour and must because they are unable to eat otherwise. Think of cell phones and the services provided by them that allows us to stay connected with each other. The Verizon commercial is a prime example of how many people it takes to make it so one person can have excellent service even if it is the mere use of the product. Think about the amazing internet and all or the parts and pieces that have to happen together to make it happen. Think about all of the support people in the process of all of these these from distributors, store owners, manufacturers, farmers, fishermen etc.

Remember, God/Universe's greatest gift to us when we are born are our unique talents. We have been encouraged to move forward in life and be fruitful and multiple. This idea is not just about bearing children only, it is about bearing our unique talents to the world.What is it you do that is your service? How does what you do effect hundreds of individuals in the form of how you currently create financial income? What is amazing about the service you provide?

If no one on the planet did what you do, how would the world survive without that service of no one providing it at all? How would the world we know today be different without that service? Do you love what you do? Can you see how what you do and the way you do it is unique for you and your uniqueness is a product that you sell to your employer, your clients, your family and yes, even your friends.

There is no one else exactly like you. Honor who you are and own your magnificence of who you are and the unique service you share with the World. The more you do, the more you will increase your personal worth and increase your personal magnetism.The more we are grateful for the more we get to be grateful about.

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Poverty Thinking Can Make Me Wealthy?????

You know what! I am completely fed up with the personal growth movement these days in relationship to the idea of Prosperity. I swear if one more person comes up to me or emails me about how “ I NEED“ to have more of a prosperous view of my life I am going to haul out and hit them. Now, all of you know, I am petite and would not fare well in a physical fight. Mind you I tend towards fighting with words. Let the fight begin. ;)

As I begin my rant I do want you to know that I believe in prosperity thinking, though it has been touted as the end all be all to success in our life. There are thousands of books on the topic of prosperity. In fact, Christianity touts this very premise. I can go on to Amazon, or do and internet search of the very word prosperity and hundreds of thousands of results come up. Most of the famous personal growth gurus have something about this idea as a top seller into their seminars or books etc.

I used to buy into this HOOK, LINE and SINKER. I kept thinking to myself. If only I could have more prosperity thinking. If only I could just focus on my prosperity I know I would have more. If only I could focus on the positive in my life I could have more of everything I could possibly want. If only I could be good enough. Have any of you ever felt that way about something or some idea that you wanted to have more of in your life. I spent time and money attempting to be something I already was and didn’t understand. I didn’t realize how having more prosperity thinking was actually making me poorer.

Hmmm… I know you are saying to yourself right now… what the devil is she up to? Devilish things you can be assured! LOL.

Let’s take a look at the drawbacks of prosperity thinking. You know, this belief system people that are making tons of money off you that they don’t want you to realize or they are merely taking an opportunity as they know you don’t want to realize it in yourself. Also, I am certain none of you ever would do the things I mention as being drawbacks, though I am certain you will be able to see them in other people. (Not really but I know it makes you feel better to think that. Smile.)

The following are the drawbacks I have found to prosperity thinking; When I am feeling particularly prosperous and I go out to eat or get a massage etc. I have a tendency to over tip. This is a drawback to me because I am not working within my personal budget. (Those who manage money wisely get more money to manage) It is a drawback to others as they do not receive real feedback about their service.

I have found when I am operating in this all righteous prosperous mood that I will tip others even when they have given me awful service. The drawback to me is when I tolerate something; I continue to get more of the same to be tolerant of. I am essentially telling the people/Universe and God that I don’t feel worthy, I don’t expect much ,and that I am not worthy of receiving quality and/or adequate service. In acting out in the name of prosperous thinking I have torn down my own personal self worth. I am essentially telling others, Universe and God that I expect receive substandard service. Guess what I get more of addicting to prosperous thinking…. More of the same, substandard service, less money, and less net-worth and less personal worth to break my fantasy of prosperity thinking.

The drawback to the ones who receive the tip while providing an awful service gets them stuck. They might not be able to grow or increase their income because they have gotten poor feedback on how to provide a service where their customers will feel honored and valued. They will become frustrated and think they are incapable of personal financial success. It can go as far and causing them to have to live off welfare. This will essentially be because no one has been truly honest with them about what is expected and how to work within their values. When we give money to people who deep inside know they haven’t earned it by providing a quality service it decreases their self-worth and personal desire to live the life of their dreams. They lose out by not learning how to effectively communicate their value or focus their products or services to those who will value what they have to offer. The individuals who receive compensation from us in our prosperous states end up becoming completely dependent on us, instead of learning to be dependent on themselves. When we are in our prosperous thinking state, we are not teaching people how to fish; we instead only giving them a fish for the moment.

Let’s look at poverty thinking and the benefits of it. I know, you think I have totally fallen off my rocker by now. Breathe for a moment. Read on and know you have complete freedom to disagree with me. I value having people disagree with me as I am inspired to encourage others to think for themselves, though for a moment, hold that thought.

What could possibly be the benefits of proverty thinking? I began looking at the times in my life where I had a poverty thought process. When I have a poverty process I tend to work with in a budget. I tend to save money away and plan for tomorrow. I tend to make plans about what I am going to do and I am more focused. I am more honest with individuals about the service they provide me when I have poverty thoughts which enables them to learn how to serve me more effectively or encourage me to go to others who do the same to receive the type of services I desire. The people that I show my poverty side to get to become better at persuading or selling value in such a way they end up improving their skills. Together we both increase our self-worth which increases our personal magnetism to increase our wealth. The benefits to others when I am in my poverty thought process is that they learn how to fish rather than merely eating this one fish I give them now.

Fear not having poverty or prosperity thoughts. Look at your life and see how both are needed. Prosperity thinking helps us to forage forward. Poverty thinking helps us to have plans, nest eggs and focus on the basics. Prosperity thinking helps us to be brave and take risks, poverty thinking helps us to put in place stop gaps, realize the need to communicate effectively. We need both and somewhere between Prosperity thinking and Poverty thinking is our true essence. When we can embrace both and see how they both serve in our life we unleash our own personal power. The more that we cling to one and resist the other is what causes us to continue to remain in whatever circumstance we perceive to be repeating.

Do you have circumstances that seem to continue to be repeating themselves in your life? Would you like to have the opportunity to shift that dynamic in your life? Would you be able to have more or create more in your life if you weren’t distracted by the repeating circumstances?

Well, I am here and can assist you in facilitating a different experience for you in your life. The Robinson Equation offers tele-seminars, team coaching sessions, 1:1 coaching and inspirational talks. Come join in the services of the Robinson Equation, and let’s take our lives to the next level embracing the light and dark side of ourselves. www.RobinsonEquation.com.

Society Has Been Brainwashed

Today I want to debunk a theory we have been taught. The theory is as follows: It is better to give than to receive. Now, before I start this conversation let’s just think about this statement. Go back and reread it. Ok, so who the $*%&# can you give too, if it is evil to receive? Notice the underlining tone of the actual statement. Now, mostly this idea was started by religions to inspire individuals to support the church. The religions were in the process of receiving as it was and is their way of receiving compensation for the gift of service they provided and continue to provide. Rather than selling on the value they provide to the community they instead created this weird rule that we (as a society) have all bought hook line and sinker.

There is a law of the universe out there that has the name FAIR EXCHANGE. This means that no matter what you give you receive an equal amount in return. Now, here is where the catch is that frustrates so many people. Just because you give cash doesn’t mean that you will receive cash in return. Instead you are paid back in the form of your highest values.

Beating up on religious individuals for a moment, let me give you an example. I know many people who will give and give and give all of the money they have to their church or to others. These same individuals do not even have money to buy their own clothes, their own food, shelter themselves or provide transportation for themselves. Now, they perceive themselves as being very God like as they have given so much even to the point they are neglecting their own bodies (the temple of God) to follow the law of it is better to give than to receive.

Let’s look for a moment and see where the fair exchange might be popping up for them. One way is definitely how good they feel about themselves by giving so much. They receive in return for their fair exchange a feeling of pride, belief in their spiritual connection with God that it is better than anyone else’s, that they are following the “law of God” better than anyone. They stand proud and justified in their conviction. This is what they might be receiving in return for their giving instead of the form of the financial return professed by the "law of giving."

A little over 5 years ago I sold my home that I had purchased when I lived in Las Vegas. I made a huge profit as I sold when the market was peaking. I had all of this excess cash. I ended up attending a personal development seminar within the month of selling my home. At the end of the seminar there was the opportunity to purchase into the next seminar. I had already signed up. I had this guilt in the back of my mind that I was required to give a tithe of 10% of the profit. I wouldn’t be God like if I didn’t share my wealth (money) with others. In my hurry to be certain I was living in abundance I reacted to a woman who made a request to have someone pay for her to go to the next seminar. In that moment I felt it was up to me to pay for this woman to go. I did not request payment at all, I just freely gave her the money as we are “suppose” to do as givers. We are only suppose to give without wanting anything in return.

I am going share from my personal experience this is not true. This is what I received because I blocked other forms of receiving: I felt proud, I felt self-righteous, I got to be noticed by others for my grand giving, I felt better than her, I felt I had arrived in my life, I felt I really was going to be blessed in the future for being so giving, I felt justified and on and on. Most important I felt I was living the true laws of prosperity as we were so wonderfully taught in our religions. Folks, all those things I mentioned were how I was paid in fair exchange for what I gave. Notice I did not mention I received money in fair exchange. This had to do with the forms I chose were higher in my values. I mentioned them earlier in the paragraph and I blocked all other forms of fair exchange.

Right after this seminar class I returned home to my boyfriend who then moved in with me into a “bigger and better” home from the one I had just purchased. His first check bounced for our first mortgage payment. His next payment never came. By this time I had returned to the upgraded seminar class and came home. At this upgraded class I was again taught the value of “It is better to give than to receive.” More thoughts on how to operate from abundance and not operate in scarcity. The girl that I had paid for was there and appeared to be having a grand time. I again received more personal reward in walking with my head high, feeling proud I had paid for her to be there, being certain of my willingness to give, thinking that others must really perceive me as altruistic. Give me a freaking break! I was being completely naïve to the law of fair exchange and not acknowledging how I was receiving from the Universe/God.

When I got home I finally woke up regarding my boyfriend. He was draining me of money. He made more money than I did and now our 3rd month was due and he hadn’t even resolved the first bounced check with me. How is it that I tithed and was so generous and was “getting taken?” I stopped it right then and there! I kicked him out. I gave him a week to move out, though after talking with his sister I then gave him 24 hours to get out of the house and he could move his stuff later. It turned out he had a gambling problem and that is why he didn’t have any money to pay for what he had committed to.

What I realized for me was my now ex-boyfriend was a mirror reflection of me. I too was a gambler. I of course was being a “HOLY GAMBLER.” I was giving my tithe to God expecting him to bless me financially. In fact, I would say I was “OVER GIVING” expecting God to bless me. The reason why I indicated I was over giving is that I was not taking care of myself, the Temple of God. I was not maintaining my own four walls: food, clothes, shelter and transportation.

I learned after a long two years of working very hard and loosing all of my money for the spiritual gambles I had been playing with God, thinking that if I kept giving to others I would be rewarded financially. The problem wasn’t that the Universe wasn’t rewarding me abundantly, because it was. The Universe was rewarding me according to my highest values. Based on how I was managing my money, money was clearly not my highest value. The Universe was also working very hard to help me wake up to reality that I was closed off to receiving except in the forms of my highest values.

My financial frustrations with myself had to get so severe and I had to get so frustrated to wake up the the reality that I was blocking financial abundance from my life 1st by the form I only allowed and 2nd by not managing what I received well. Even though a few years ago I learned about this and began realizing that it is a stupid one sided belief continued to still run my life this way. This is a process for me and I learn more about it every day and gain greater knowledge about my values.

Have you ever heard the phrase…” You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink.”

That is how the universe is with money and opportunities. It is right in front of our face waiting for us to see that we are worthy of having it. Most importantly we have to realizing the forms that we have been addicted to receiving from and how that applies to our highest values. It also is important to give ourselves credit for the talents we have our unique capabilities. Everyone is not exactly like us. We all have our special talents to serve the world with in our unique form. We are worthy of being rewarded financially for the service we provide the world. We will not be able to be rewarded financially until we can clearly see the form we are addicted to receiving, love that form, and then be able to transform it into a financial form.

For me I was really addicted to the form of doing it myself and receiving only the “good feelings”. I was addicted to how I was to receive the financial form, i.e. working HARD, how many hours of service, how productive I was, how many people I served. I was extremely controlling of the form and receipt of the form. I wasn’t allowing the magnificence of the universe to work for me. I also was negating my talents and skills. I assumed anyone could do what I do or share what I share. I have never been more wrong. I am phenomenal at public speaking, and I have a very unique way of looking at life and being able to be vulnerable and teach people tools that will actually work for them in creating their life. Not just anyone can do it. I can, and I am important to the world in sharing my talents and gifts. My talents are needed the way I express them. I am the very best me that exists on planet earth. When I learned about how the form I was receiving my “fair exchange” served me and accepted it as it was, then I was able to transform it into the form I most wanted to create in my life.

I f you or someone you know is an “addict” to giving and is frustrated by not creating the results they say they want in life, get them in touch with me. www.robinsonequation.com I have seminars, coaching sessions and many other ideas that will enable them to tap into their potential and transform it into capacity. I am extremely skilled in assisting others in recognizing their blocks and then doing something about it.

Thank you for letting me share my thoughts with you. Janis Robinson

You Have RIVALS????

My 8th Grade Arch-Rival

As some of you may have read from my previous blogs I was expelled in 8th grade from parochial school. My eighth grade year I had the privilege of attending a small town public school in the heart of the Midwest. I went from a class of 3 students in the 8th grade to a class of 100. I had so many more people to talk to and associate with. I was elated because I had a different teacher for every class in my new school. Instructors paid to teach one class as their expertise which was a new and different experience for me.

Have any of you ever started a new school or maybe a new job where there were lots of new people? The first few days, even weeks in a new environment can be pretty scary. Sometimes, it can take a little longer than that to feel like you fit in. I was there, scared, and learning how to fit in with this large group. I was still recovering mentally from being rejected (expelled). I just needed a friend.

Slowly I began to make friends. I was thriving on the joy of being with teachers who loved the subjects they taught. Even though I was a little shy, I did risk and participate in class. I had the opportunity of being in choir and in band. I was pretty good at music, as I had been taking piano lessons since 2nd grade and had been playing the flute for the last 2 years. I also sang frequently at church as my parents attended frequently.

With this new school came lots of hot boys! WOW! I had my eye on one particular boy who just happened to be in choir and band. He just happened to be part of the “in” crowd and I wasn’t. Hmmmm, how was I going to get him to notice me? How was I going to stand out and show him how much of a catch I was? Have you ever felt this way with a boss, or someone you liked? Have you ever done something just to get noticed?

Well, the head cheerleader- Caroline, and also a BIG part of the “in” crowd noticed my interest in “her” man. Mind you, they were not dating, though she somehow felt that she owned him. Thus, she became my Arch-Rival. She was there frequently to make certain I didn’t become a permanent member of the “in” crowd. Despite her efforts, I became friends with a few of the girls in the “in” crowed.

I had to come up with an effective strategy of being noticed, and also place Caroline in a check mate. This was a big effort of genius for me, as I had not previously experienced this type of adversity with a peer. Plus, I had never liked any other boy at this point as much as I liked this one.

Caroline happened to play the flute just like me. If I remember correctly, there were about 4 of us in the flute section of the band. I had the joy of holding down the 4th position as I was new and the last to arrive to the class. After being in band for about 1 month something happened in the trumpet row. They had what is called a “challenge.” A challenge is when the say the 3rd place challenges the 2nd place for the position in the band. The winner of the challenge either maintains their chair or gains a new position. The band members vote on who they perceive place the challenge piece of music the best.

This was cool. Competition. I had never had the opportunity to compete in something I perceived being skilled at. I could compete at music and I could easily be good just by practicing. I then made my first challenge to move up to 3rd chair from 4th. I was so nervous playing a solo piece for the entire band, and I succeeded! I was so grateful. I then began thinking, I wonder if I could get 2nd place? Have you ever done something well once, and then wanted to take it to the next level and see if you could? Well this was just one of those instances. I challenged 2nd place who by the way was Caroline. It was a flute dual between the two of us. Caroline did end up winning, though it was so invigorating to give her a run for her money.

With all of this new found incentive of going after and risking to get what I wanted I decided to audition for a solo in our school musical. Guess who else was in that class…Your Right! Caroline! I ended up successfully obtaining a solo with three other girls singing “we’ll take manhattan…” I couldn’t believe how successful I was becoming and how people were starting to notice me. After the musical my Arch-Rival was quick to point out to me I had sung dreadfully off tune. She was the only one though. I have no idea, nor did I care, I had done something huge for me!

The school year progressed much like this, with me competing and going after things I had realized I could do. I usually had my worst critic Caroline commenting from my sidelines. In the spring were cheerleader try outs. I couldn’t do that as I knew my mom would kill me. In the religion I was growing up, dancing is considered a little evil and not recommended. My mom felt that cheerleading was definitely dancing. It would have been fun to directly compete with Caroline on her favorite activity!

I instead chose to compete for Flag Girl position with the marching band in high school for the next year. Have I mentioned that I am short, and at that time barely weighed 90 lbs. Some days when I was practicing with my flag outside, I felt like I was going to blow away. We had try outs finally. D-day was here. A day later the results were posted! I MADE IT!! I WAS A FLAG GIRL in the band if I wanted to be.

Now, what you might not know is that I was never planning to go to public school for high school. I wanted very much to move away from home and go to coed boarding school. Well, my arch-rival Caroline found out about this. She was MAD! Holy cow! She cornered me in the hall one day and completely let me have it on how horrible a person I was to go out for something, get it, and take a spot away from someone else who really wanted it that was going to be there the next year. Her words to me were, “ I WOULD NEVER DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT!”

Well, let me just make a short point with you here… when you hear someone strongly say”I WOULD NEVER”… you can be 100% certain it will come true for that person. I think God has a unique sense of humor and that is why He/She does that.

Caroline had tried out for the cheerleading squad that same spring for high school. She got a spot on the team. Good for her. Caroline and her family also moved that summer before high school unexpectedly. She had taken someone else’s spot and then left them in a ‘lurch’ as she accused me of doing.

Did the one guy ever notice me? Who knows. I didn’t really care by the end of the year because I was having so much fun being me. Were Caroline and I ever friends? No, we were never friends. She, however, was one of the most amazing people in my life. My desire to prove her wrong and compete with her for one of the guys attention helped me to grow and risk as an individual. The whole experience really stepped up my leadership capabilities. I am so grateful to her! She inspired me to push through my shyness and be all I could be. Thank you, Caroline, for being a tremendous catalyst & antagonist in my life, acting out the perfect arch rival role to me. Thank you for being you exactly as you are! You, Caroline, played a very important role of helping me become who I am today. Thank you!

I recommend going after anything that interests you. Go for it. What do you have to lose? If you end up getting and realize you do not want it, that’s ok to. It is better to have tried to get something and not get it, than it is to be too fearful never trying at all. Our failures and the action of taking these failures does lead us to some of our most amazing successes.

What in your life, would you like to go after? Maybe I can help. Check it out at www.robinsonequation.com. You already have everything you could possibly need to become who you dream of. Let me help you find it in you! I will support you by asking quality questions to help you create your plan of success according to your highest values.
Thank you for letting me share this with you! J